The Destiny Point in Astrology: Where to Find + How to Werk Your Vertex (Not a Medical Thing) 💫
Hello! This is a re-publication of my post, How to Find the Vertex, or Destiny Point, in a birth, transit, or relationship chart! ⚡️🌀
I’ve updated it to include more info about what to do if you think your Vertex has been activated (“ew, what does THAT mean?” …read to find out! 😉), with links to free chart generators and instructions for discovering if your Vertex has been previously “activated”… whether by a planet, an eclipse, or by somebody else's planets! 🙀
NOTE: I mention and link to my post about when my Vertex was struck by an eclipse in 2021, but just FYI, that post hasn’t been cleaned up or updated in hella days, but it’s def’ on my teux-deux list!
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How to Find + Interpret Black Moon Lilith in Synastry 🐍💞
In a synastry chart (comparing two natal charts for relationship potential 💕✨), contact between Liliths might explain an inappropriate or “doomed” attraction or you feel towards someone...
Sometimes a Lilith attraction is about who we want, or how we want them—it might be attraction to a type of person (gender, culture, status, et. al.) we don’t usually go for, or a type of sex we feel ashamed for wanting, or straight-up fascination with someone in possession of what we deny within ourselves. This person usually embodies or represents what we associate as a “bad stroke” in a tender place juuust out of reach…
…but presented with other ingredients, elements, or factors (symbolized by our Lilith-synastry person ✨), in such a way that we become curious about the area that’s being stroked.
Basically, a Lilith-driven relationship compels us to breech and explore our own taboo. 👻
Synastry 101: Where to Get + How to Read a Synastry Chart (but, like, not well, ok?)
If you’ve been following along, you know I’ve been learning all about Eclipses and the Vertex point in astrology. ☺️✨
But to really get that snap-crackle-pop epiphany from analyzing the Vertex, you might need to do a little SYNASTRY > combining your and someone else’s chart (or the chart of an event or place) to see how fate, or all the rest of the solar system, intersects with your relationship. 👐🏻✨
And to cast someone else’s chart, you need their birth date, time, and location. 💫
This can get weird if you don’t know the person.
Like—you can’t do a proper synastry reading unless you know the person enough-ish to guess-timate their birth data, based on about two years’ worth of idle coffeeshop chitchat.
(And eavesdropping. 💁🏻♀️)
